you know… when you’re old and you’re wrinkly and you’re sitting here gumming your food and your husband looks at you, and even though he doesn’t see you very well anymore, he can see in your eyes the whole world: the future, the past, everything that was good and even things that were bad, and he can still say, ‘there is my queen and what a privilege it had been to love her.’
Wrestling over remotes; playing in the mud, throwing each other in pools; fighting over the last piece of cheesecake, having food fights, killing each other over which TV show we’re gonna watch. & then not watching in anyways, I want to piss you off, & then kiss you, I want you to be the one who makes fun of me, for burning your dinner; or forgetting to do your laundry, I want you & me. Forever.
One of the worst feelings in life is watching the person you love, love someone else. As much as it hurts you to not be the one by their side, all you can really do is be happy for them and hope that they get treated right.
Make sure you’re comfortable with the person you are with. It should be someone you know well and enjoy being around. You should be close to them and you shouldn’t find them boring or irritating.
Choose a film that you both like, for the times when you are watching the film. If you haven’t agreed on the film, you will get bored halfway through it, and lose interest. Try one of the many film review websites out there before you go.
Break any touch barriers by resting your head on his shoulder. He may do anything from flinch to take the hint and place his arm around you.
Enjoy the movie, you’re with the person you like and it feels good being with them.
Get some food, like popcorn, and share it with each other. Make sure you both like it!
If you want to kiss him, or have him kiss you, lean against his shoulder and look up at him.
Most importantly, have fun. If he’s no fun to be around, will he be worth it?
I want you to know that I don’t plan on settling for anything less than you. I am working on being the right woman for you. I know we won’t have a flawless relationship. I have my faults and you are expected to have yours as well. The beauty is that we will be able to accept each other’s flaws…